The words studio · confidential by design

you know what you feel

We help you
phrase it

Send the memories, promises and rough notes that matter to you. We help you organize and phrase them in language you would actually say aloud.

Curated, not ghost-written · two revisions included · each partner’s vows sealed from the other

how it works

From rough notes to a finished read-aloud draft

Step one

The rough notes

Send whatever exists: bullet points, voice memos, a paragraph that trails off. Blank pages welcome — that is what step two is for.

Step two

The questionnaire

Our memory questionnaire draws out the material you did not know was material: the specifics, the rituals, the sentence you always almost say.

Step three

The curation

We shape your words — as much or as little help as you need, from a gentle edit to structure, phrasing and flow for the whole piece.

Step four

The polish

Two rounds of revisions, a read-aloud pass for rhythm and length, and a clean printed-format copy for the pocket of whoever holds it.

The vault rule

Sealed until the aisle

When both of you use the service, your vows are handled in separate conversations. Neither partner receives or sees the other person’s material before the ceremony.

  • Separate correspondence for each partner, never shared
  • Lengths and tone quietly balanced so neither of you is upstaged
  • Surprises preserved — including from us: we spoil nothing

Choose your service

For one

One person’s vows, curated end to end.

$199

For both of you

Two sets, two sealed conversations, one ceremony.

$329

try before you buy

Borrow a line first

The free vow library holds openings, promises and closings in every tone — free to borrow outright. Many couples start there and come to us when the middle refuses to write itself.

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“I sent a page of notes and three voice memos. The finished version still sounded like me, but it finally had an order I could read aloud.”
— A bride, kept anonymous
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“We had the memories and the promises; we kept getting lost between them. The edit gave us a structure without making either set sound formal.”
— Two vow clients
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“Neither of us saw the other’s vows before the ceremony. They felt connected without repeating each other, which was what we had worried about.”
— Amara, of Amara & Josh
Vow Curationfrom $199